I would like to cover four areas of importance as we talk about making soul-to-soul connections. They are: The Spirit & Your Higher Self; Your Divinity & Your Sacredness; The Issue of Compatibility; and finally Being Fully Prepared.
The Spirit & Your Higher Self
Making Soul-to-Soul Connections start with a having a primal connection in place. It starts with maintaining that important internal connection before connecting with anyone else outside of yourself.
Maintaining the Connection with Source - This primary connection is the one with Source or what many refer to as God. Regardless as to what label you choose, it is counterproductive to attempt to establish a relationship with someone outside of yourself when you don’t have a relationship with the Omnipotent, Omnipresent, Transcendent Reality, Source, or God.
Source is not something you externally plug into, rather it is something that you must go within the essence of your own being to make that connection. When we talk about the Spirit and your Higher Self, Spirit is Source. Your Higher Self is your individualized essence of Source. It is the part of you that understands that All is One.
Having this connection in place first, prepares you for other connections that you will inevitably make at various stages of your life. Therefore, it is important to maintain that important internal connection at all times.
Move Purposefully - In addition to maintaining that internal connection, you must move purposefully. Everything in life including you has an aim and purpose. And whatever that purpose is, you must be found moving and walking in it and consistently being a sharpened tool. If you don’t know it yet, then it is up to you to plug into that Source, so that you can discover what it is and that discovery comes through the primary connection. So while your aim and purpose may not be fully clear all at once, over time it will evolve and manifest in your life.
Elevate Your Vibrations – Awaken all of your senses through practices that work for you as an individual. There is nothing “woo-woo” or weird about who you are. You were called in this season, in this dispensation of time to be who you are at this moment. You are not out of time or season and you are not out of sync when you listen to that internal guidance. Leverage that guidance to grow, and powerfully impact the world around you. Be who you were called to be. Some of you reading this have incredible gifts. Use your gifts and talents. Share them and grow and evolve from the experiences. Also elevate your vibrations by serving on whatever level you are able to serve. You might start out with one offering, fine tune it. Then you may grow to have two, three, or four offerings. When Spirit nudges you to go to the next level hold on to your pants and flow with it. Because waiting there, might be your love connection or the very answer to a prayer. Someone is always waiting on us to arrive and we are always waiting on someone or something to manifest. Expect it. Continue to sharpen and fine tune your gifts, because that energy will flow outward.
Your Divinity & Sacredness.
You are divine and sacred. You are an individualized expression of God materially.
Know Who You Are - This is a very important one because often the lack of one’s understanding of who they are results in them making choices that are not characteristic of who they really are. When you have the knowledge of who you are, you minimize the risk of impacting your environment and sphere in a way that you really don’t choose. It keeps you from manifesting things in ignorance. You are Sacred & Divine and it is important to see and project that divine self to those around you. So how do you do that?
· Operate in your Gifts. . . if you are an artist and paint, or a singer, or have a fascination with healing stones or whatever the case may be, spend time daily doing that which is a part of your sacredness and divinity. The more you operate in your gifts, the more you project your truth authentically, the clearer you become.
· Speak and Act from the Heart – Be assertive in speaking your truth and behaving in such a way where your words and actions are congruent. Be consistent and let your actions match-up with your words.
· Teach People How to Handle You – Command with your actions rather than demand with your tongue what you accept and what you do not accept. Respect and honor Self and let that be your example to others on how to handle you. Project the light of your truth for others to see clearly.
· Shine Your Light – Keep your torch burning so your SOUL INTENDED can see you clearly and know that you are the one that they have either found or are waiting on. Be an example of that which you say you believe and people will see your truth and follow it.
Stop Being Who & What You Aren’t – If you are tired of being handled in a certain manner or not experiencing the sort of relationships or life you desire, then make some changes. You are the solution. You are the solution. You are the solution. Anytime something is not going the way you want it to in your life, your relationship, your ministry, look in the mirror because therein lies both the problem and the solution. If you choose to place the blame elsewhere, you also inevitably choose to give your power away. Take your power back. Take responsibility for everything in your life and then make the change. Tap into the power that is and has always been within you and realign. It probably sounds easier said than done and yes it takes work, but you were born to win!
Understand Sexual Energy – In life, people have many types of relationships where energetic cords of attachments are created. When these cords are rooted in love, a positive cord is created. However, when the cord is rooted in pain or trauma, a negative cord of attachment is created. The is the root of how toxic relationships are formed. One of the most powerful energies that can be shared between people is sexual energy. When two people share in sexual energy they create deep energetic cords that has a profound impact emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Energetic cords are lines of light which connect one person’s energy center to another’s. Cords allow for communication between two bodies and the sharing of energy. While sometimes cords can be positive and beneficial, often they are negative, counterproductive and draining. Sex links aural energies together. Regardless of how meaningless or casual the connection appears to be, on an energetic level there is a profound occurrence happening, especially when sex is involved. The more you engage in sexual activity with a person the deeper that connection becomes and the more the two auras become linked or intertwined. This is not to say that sex is “bad” outside of the context of marriage, all I’m saying is that it comes with consequences.
The Issue of Compatibility.
Understanding the premise of compatibility is key on any level of relating, whether it be with clients, co-workers, family members, or anything else in life. There must be compatibility. Compatibility is the ability to co-exist in harmony. It is rooted in compassion and the wherewithal to feel what the other is feeling. It is having the capability of walking in someone else’s moccasins or shoes as to gain a deeper understanding of what the other person is experiencing. Compatibility is well beyond mere attraction or like. The issue of compatibility has varying degrees. When determining co-existing and harmony and the overall compatibility factor, you have to look at spiritual compatibility, energetic compatibility, emotional compatibility, sexual compatibility, intellectual compatibility, financial compatibility, and social compatibility.
Being prepared is about being ready to deal with a particular situation. It means that you are in a suitable state and condition and are available. In this case, being prepared to make a soul-to-soul connection means you are connected to the primary source. It means you have cut the negative cords of attachments, and are emotionally available. A person who is prepared for a soul-to-soul connection has already discovered their purpose in life or is currently on the road to discovering it and ready to walk in it. They are living their truth and are not afraid to stand in the light of their own truth. They understand that their soul intended will identify them by their vibration. So ultimately being prepared is vibrating on the frequency of the channel in which you expect your soul intended to meet you.